The Rebel wrote:mesh bas east and west.. laken lazem yettarya2 w yermy kelmetien 3an el mo3taqadat el deneyya.. men 3'er ay monasba as usual..

My post had no religious references whatsoever, it had cultural references.

People who live in an eastern society and subscribe to different religious beliefs still hold the unholy and unscientific understanding of homo-sexuality.

This topic is about marriage and same sex marriage is acknowledged where I live. I thought it would be very interesting to discuss such controversial topic and see everyone's point of view....

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Shimaagamal wrote:Mona, Hanney malma7sh le ay 7aga leeha 3elaka bel mo3tkdat el denya ... wel mawdoo3 elly howa fata7oh dah fe3lan fih ekhtelaf bien el east wel west ...
bas lel asaf mafeesh 3elaka bien el homo-sexuality and marriage.

Hi Shimaa

I have never disagreed with you before, but I am fraid on this occassion I will.

Due to the utmost respect of your person, I will not dig deep on this one and will send you a PM "if I may" rather.

walid_gad wrote:I agree ya Shimaa, Hanney's post was totally irrelative to the topic.

Hanney, if u r interested in the homo sexual relations then I advise u to discuss about it elsewhere as i think that nobody here is interested in such western societies rubbish subjects.

Hello Walid

Many thanks for the advice and inspiration. I am now thinking of starting a new thread discussing this important issue and see what everyone thinks.

p.s: By the way, this "syndrome" is not unique to the west. Our societies are full of happy people too! But we choose not to see them!

Izzy wrote:So at what point exactly does an "In-Law" become an "Outlaw" ?

Hello Iz

I believe that in laws are always outlaws. The whole idea of involving the whole family in the marriage process is something that my little mind can’t see the reason behind.
It might be an important aspect in arranged marriages where families play the crucial role. The family will affect the selection process, the financial process and consequently the after marriage phase.
The problem with in law interference is simply an age problem. The couple belongs to a different generation and young while age deprives the person from the ability to take risk. So mothers and fathers will do their best to prevent their little babies from the things they believe is risky. They will try to prevent their little babies from going through the same experiences they did. They simply try to prevent their little babies from growing up.
And this where all the problems starts, the in laws will start posing conditions and then the phase of advices starts and if the couple were good kids the phase of interference will begin and there will be no place for the couple’s decision. It is always the decision of someone else, and then they will start fighting defending the reasoning of their parents.
In laws are outlaws when they decide the course of living for their children.

I have a question, a serious one so please don't take it lightly.
Is "LIKE" an important ingredient to the marriage reciepe??

LOL
A typical Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus scenario
howa kol hamoh fi el kora, we heya lama howa maykalemhash yeb2a haysebha
el 7al el wa7eed enaha tetfarag 3ala football, and he should start loving knitting keda haywesalo le mar7la mn el 7ewar el moshtarak

Yesterday I was in a family gathering, and there was a couple who are married more than 30 yrs ago. They still fight over simple communication miss-understandings their kids who are engaged and married works as "translators" they go like "no ya baba, mama meant so and vice versa". I guess this is why kids are important in a marriage they have both genes so the couple can finally find a way to translate.

maweteny mn el de7ek ya Ashraf

who is the original author?

akeed mesh ana

the authoer is:
د.أيمن محمد الجندي

gameel gedan ya general

Begad Ra23a

mesh mel7zeen enoh 2al kol el 7agat elly kona 2aylenha before fi el topic
akeed fi 7ad 3'areeb hena

fe3lan hoa 2al kolo laken bee 2osloop very funny

ma asl dee 7aka2ek we sawabet ya shimaa al kol motafeq 3aliha